3-17-07

When you talk about someone when you are really angry with them and you are talking about the ways they make you angry it’s just the same as when people who hit their spouses say ‘I didn’t want to have to hurt you, but you bade me do it!’ YES … other people’s actions or behaviors might make me crazy, but I still have the choice to react in a way that isn’t crazy. And my reactions are the only thing I need to worry about controlling in my relationships.