3-3-07

I had a dream last night about someone I was cruel to in the past. I woke up thinking about weather a wrongdoer has the right to apologize. What I came to is that if someone wants to apologize because they have all these idealized notions about how their apology will be accepted they probably aren’t ready to apologize yet… that apologies shouldn’t be offered from a place where the apologizer believes they will get the biggest benefit.